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The Paradox of Grace: Why Them and Not Me?

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I’ve been sitting with a single word lately, turning it over in my mind: Grace .  We use this word constantly. When we escape an accident, we call it Grace. When a door opens unexpectedly, we say, God’s Grace. We ask for it daily, almost like it’s the air we breathe. But when you really stop and look at it, I mean really look! the concept starts to feel heavy. I’ll admit, I like bothering God with the simple questions. I told Him, I know the theological definitions, but speak to me plainly. What is Grace to You? Because if Grace is truly undeserved, it challenges everything we know about fairness. The Bible gives us names that we associate with divine favor: Noah found grace in the eyes of the Lord while the world was falling apart. Mary was chosen to carry the Messiah. David found grace and was chosen to become king.  And so on… Why them?  If Grace is a gift you can’t earn, why does it seem to target specific people at specific times? We often try to find a reason in the...

Lessons From Conception

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There is a special kind of knowing that comes when you realize you’ve been chosen to carry something. It starts small. It’s quiet. It’s a secret you hold close to your heart before you ever share it with the world. For a mother, that weight is physical. For a dreamer, it’s spiritual. We walk our paths with a certain pride, protecting the life growing inside us, believing it is our job to be the only ones who keep it safe. But what happens when the journey becomes too heavy? What happens when you reach the point where you can no longer carry the weight, and the seed you carry has to be moved to a place you cannot follow? The Crisis of Empty Hands In The Conception, there is a moment that feels confusing: surrendering your plan, your project, your seed not because you want to, but because you are afraid of losing it completely. Sometimes surrender is asked of us. Sometimes it is required. In this story, God, the Doctor, sees the danger and decides the seed must be placed in an incubator,...

Devotional #1: The Love of God

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  We love because He first loved us.  1 John 4:19 NIV The love of God is a kind of love you will never find anywhere else. You can search the world for something similar, yet nothing will ever come close. His love is different, unique, natural, deep, profound, holy, pure, royal. Sometimes when His love touches you, it feels like fire moving through your veins, filling your lungs, settling in your heart like an intense heartbeat that your chest tries to hold, only He can steady. It is a love that cannot be replaced, substituted, or matched. This love awakens your emotions. It can make you cry, sing, you may feel the urge to worship, or whisper gratitude from a place you didn’t know existed. Sometimes, all those feelings rise together at once. You may try to understand this love , why this it feels so strong, so deep:You might think, Of course, it’s normal, Jesus saved me. But inside, you know it is more than that. You love Him not only because of what He did, but because of who...

Thanksgiving Reflection: A Heart of Gratitude

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A heart of gratitude goes beyond circumstances, noticing blessings in both the quiet and visible moments. When we think about Thanksgiving, we often focus on good things that happen to us, things we may not even feel we deserve. But “ A Heart of Gratitude ” invites us to pause and look deeply at our lives, not just on Thanksgiving Day, but in every moment. It’s about more than saying “thank you” for visible blessings; it’s about cultivating an inner posture of appreciation, even in seasons of challenge. It’s a chance to reflect on the growth we’ve experienced, the lessons we’ve learned, and the quiet ways God has worked in our lives. This is the space where we acknowledge both blessings and struggles, recognizing that every experience contributes to our journey and shapes who we are. Thanksgiving is not just a day on the calendar, it’s a practice of the soul. It’s about seeing God’s faithfulness in the quiet moments, celebrating progress we may have overlooked, and sharing thankfulness...

How My Book Taught Me to Dare

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There was a time when social media represented everything I ran away from.  Photos? Not my thing. Publishing? Those who know me can attest, you’d never see me share anything. And videos? Forget it.  I was one of those who preferred to stay in the shadows, silent, invisible, exactly as I liked it. Then one day, a message arrived, an invitation to share.  A book in one message.  Against all odds, this simple notification sparked something unexpected in me: the desire to try, to obey, and to give. But not just in any way. I prayed for courage, the courage to take the plunge, to face the gaze of others, the judgments, the contradictions.  Because yes, on social media, everything is commented on. Of course, there were remarks, sometimes destabilizing, sometimes disconnected. And in front of them, I learned to smile. A smile complicit with myself, because I knew from the start: I couldn’t escape it. It was the price of stepping out of my comfort zone. But somethi...

Being There for Someone: Compassion That Heals Hidden Hurts

Pain can be quiet. Sometimes it hides behind smiles or polite words. Sometimes it’s so heavy that even the people closest to us can’t see it. And yet, in those moments, compassion, the kind that really shows up, can be life-changing. Being there for someone isn’t about having the right words. It isn’t about fixing them or pretending you know everything. It’s about noticing. Listening. Standing beside them and saying, without saying it, I see you. You’re not alone. I’ve been on both sides of this. I’ve carried pain I couldn’t share, and I’ve tried to support someone while unsure what to do. And I learned something important: sometimes, just being present, quietly, without words, is enough. That small act can lift a burden that felt unbearable. Compassion Heals Because It Sees Pain thrives when it’s ignored. Compassion heals because it notices. It refuses to walk past. It says, Your hurt matters. I am here. And showing up isn’t always easy. It might cost time, comfort, or pride. But it’s...

The Weight No One Sees

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about the things we carry the quiet weights no one sees. You know the kind I mean. The ones you hide behind a smile, the ones you don’t even talk about anymore because you’ve gotten used to holding them in. Some of us carry childhood pain we never fully processed. Others carry wounds from broken trust, betrayal, or the ache of not being chosen. We get good at functioning with it. We show up for others. We handle our responsibilities. We even laugh. But inside, there’s a heaviness we’ve learned to hide well. I used to think healing was about “moving on.” Push through. Be strong. Pray more. Smile anyway. But what I’ve come to realize is this: some hurts don’t go away because we keep pretending they’re not there. When I was writing  Carrying a Hurt: From Burden to Freedom , I found myself returning again and again to one thought: we cannot heal what we keep buried. God doesn’t need our performance. He longs for our honesty. And sometimes, the most power...